Whether it's a four or five wire relay is not important. In your case you would just leave 87a not hooked to anything.
In a "standard" Bosch style relay, 87 is normally open (coil in the relay not energized...no power flowing across terminals 85 & 86) and 87a is normally closed (again, coil in the relay not energized)...what does this mean? When you have your momentary switch wired as in the above illustration, when you push it, the coil energizes and your relay closes the switch and your horn honks. If you were hooked up to 87a, your horn would honk all the time until you pushed your switch and then it would stop.
Make sense?
Here is a schematic of the relay, it may help you to visualize what is going on.